"If it is to be, it is up to me."
This quote means my future depends on me. How my life will turn out depends on how much effort I put in as a young adult now. I have to strive and do my best to achieve all goals I have set for myself. If something goes wrong, I should be responsible and take accountability for any actions. Just because I want something does not mean it will fall in my lap; I have to work hard for it.